But there’s another explanation: values. For many, helping others—whether a waiter, a neighbor, or a stranger on the street—is second nature. This often stems from an upbringing based on humility, solidarity, and the conviction that no one is worth more than another. It’s a way of being instilled from childhood that shapes how we act in society.
When a simple gesture becomes a small act of gentle rebellion
What’s also interesting is that this gesture subtly challenges social norms. In traditional roles, the customer is there to be served, period. Helping to clear the table means refusing to be just a passive consumer and gently breaking down the invisible barrier between the one who serves and the one who is served. This kind of attitude demonstrates a form of emotional maturity: there’s no sense of superiority, no need to assert status. It’s a choice of equality, even in the smallest details.Continue reading…
