My husband always showered before me. I’d hear the water running while I made coffee, and he’d call out silly things from behind the curtain. One morning, I heard him say, “Hey babe, come look at this mole on my back.
Does it look bad?” I laughed and walked toward the bathroom. But then I saw…the curtain slightly open, the steam rolling out, and a tremble in his voice that I had never heard before. At first, I assumed he was just being dramatic—he had a habit of turning the smallest things into jokes for attention.