My husband, Julian, and I had always shared what most people would call a rare kind of closeness with his parents, Maribel and Clark. Not the stiff, polite family dynamic you put on display for holidays or milestone events. Ours was the kind where we’d drop by unannounced and still be welcomed with warm embraces, the kind where late-night phone calls turned into hour-long conversations filled with jokes and stories, the kind where sharing what was on our hearts came naturally.
They weren’t just his parents; they were our friends. That was why, when things began shifting in a direction we couldn’t explain, it felt like the ground under us was slowly tilting. It began a few months after we learned I was pregnant for the first time.
From that moment on, we imagined what telling Maribel and Clark would be like. They had always wanted grandchildren—Maribel especially. She was only forty-six, still youthful, stylish, the type who wore floral wrap dresses and red lipstick even for grocery runs.Continue reading…