I confronted Stan, who didn’t even look guilty. “They were from your ex,” he said flatly. “I don’t want anything from him in our home.” I asked if that meant we should throw Ember out too, since she was from my ex. He brushed it off, promising to buy her “better” toys. But Ember didn’t want replacements — she wanted hers.
Stan grudgingly retrieved them from the trash, rinsing them in the sink, but the damage was done. Ember’s trust in him was gone, and I started seeing cracks in the man I thought I knew. A week later, over coffee, he told me I needed to have Ember start calling him “Dad” and cut Mark out of her life completely. That was the moment I knew this wasn’t about toys — it was about control.
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