The second powerful clue lies in how people behave when things go wrong. Life doesn’t always go according to plan—there are delays, failures, and setbacks that test us in ways comfort never could.
Do they lash out when the line is too long at the pharmacy? Do they blame the clerk when their order gets mixed up? Do they snap at loved ones when they’re tired?
Jung reminded us that character isn’t revealed in times of ease—it is revealed in times of crisis. A person’s ability to stay balanced in frustration speaks volumes about their emotional maturity, humility, and self-control.
For many older adults, this rings especially true. Life has taught us that storms will always come. The question isn’t whether someone has faced challenges, but how they carried themselves through them. That, more than anything, separates resilience from fragility.
Other Subtle Clues That Speak Volumes
While these two main signs provide the strongest window into character, there are other everyday behaviors worth noticing. Over time, these small details build a more complete picture of who someone really is.
Their Sense of Humor
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