8 Subtle Signs You’re Falling Out of Love—and Why That’s Okay

They say love is eternal—but the truth is, it needs tending, like a flame that can dim if neglected. For many people in long-term relationships or marriages, the initial spark that once brought warmth and laughter can slowly fade into silence and distance. And while it’s heartbreaking, it’s also deeply human.

Falling out of love doesn’t usually happen with a loud crash. It slips in quietly—bit by bit—until one day you realize the relationship you once cherished no longer brings you comfort. And if you’re over 60, this realization can be even more complex. You’ve likely built a life together: a home, memories, maybe even a family. The guilt, the grief, the confusion—it can all feel overwhelming.

But here’s the truth: you’re not alone. Many people, especially women in their later years, find themselves sitting in a quiet kitchen, staring across the table at someone they no longer recognize, wondering, “When did this change?”

Love, like life, doesn’t always last forever. And sometimes, letting go is the most loving thing you can do—for both of you.

Here are eight signs you may be falling out of love… and why it’s okay to face that truth.

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