10+ Single Dads Share the Raw Truth Of Being the Only Parent

Every time I got home from work, my daughter would ask, “Did you bring me anything?” The only thing I could think of to get her was a wooden sword. It never even crossed my mind that she might want a doll or a dress.

Story 5

After separating from my wife in 1994, I decided not to date because I didn’t want anything to take time away from my sons. Now they’re grown, but I’ve been single for so long that I doubt I’ll ever meet anyone. Dating has changed so much — I think I’m just meant to stay single.

Story 6

Whenever I attend parent-teacher meetings with my ex-wife, the teachers almost always direct their comments and questions to her. It feels unintentionally disrespectful — like I’m invisible.

Story 7

I’ve had women tell me I’ll never understand how hard it is to be a single mom. But being a single dad comes with its own set of challenges, too.

Story 8

Doing my daughter’s hair is a daily struggle. I’ve asked female friends, my hairdresser, and even consulted the internet, but no matter what I do, it always looks like she’s been through a windstorm. Since her mom isn’t around, she’s with me full-time.

I even took her to my hairdresser, who made it look beautiful. I bought all the same products and took notes. But within two days, it was back to being a mess. At first, I worried people would judge me, but now I know I’m doing my best, and I’m a great dad.

Story 9

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